the next time your mom says something to the effect of unsolicited criticism that just grates you the wrong way use:
“ I DONT ALLOW PEOPLE WHO DONT LOVE AND SUPPORT ME IN MY LIFE” in a lighthearted and witty tone and flip your hair and continue doing what you were doing
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notice:
1 redirect attention to behavior you prefer: love and support
2 frames message in a manner that doesn’t directly insult other person
3 establishes status quo, announces standard DECISION for yourself + backed by logic. if message is simple and clear, target listener will be more susceptible to getting it lodged in their subconscious
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❤ maalia
Maria Mison 