PRO self-care tip: What would the best most perfect love of your life be DOING RIGHT NOW????

Ask this question.

 

The moment you feel like you’re in the pits of despair and in the tumbling whirlwind of a really crap day. Just ask this one quality question:

what would perfect boyfriend/girlfriend/ s.o. do for me right now ?

 

oh oh oh, they would ask me like in the nicest and most patient way possible to just drop my bag and do a few slow breaths. they’d coax me to take a nice long cool shower and make me wear my favorite pajamas. they’d put on a nice slow jam in the bedroom and clean up a bit to make me feel better and ravished. they’d get me a nice glass of water. ahhhh, I’d stretch on my bed like a cat and just get all the knots out of my body. he’d ask about my day, and lend a sympathetic ear as a i just process the troubles i’ve been going through. they’d be so patient -so patient, and just like that i’m reminded things have always been okay. He’d lull me into sleep and into bed. i’d fall asleep grateful, i’d fall asleep all nice and better.

 

good , excellent.

Now that perfect lover is YOU. 

You are the perfect love you want from the cosmos, you are the unconditional infinite love and patience from a kindred soul. LOVE YOURSELF AS MUCH AS YOU WANT TO BE LOVED BY ANOTHER PERSON. ONLY THEN CAN YOU BE FULL.

(you): that sounds excessive maalia.. 

OH BUT YOU DON’T BAT AN EYE WHEN IT’S A LOVESTRUCK IDIOT DOING IT FOR YOU.

COME. ON. 

 

love yourself, excessively, patiently, with full entirety. you deserve nothing less and the fact that you could dream up that kind of support means you already know and are fully capable of knowing how to take care of yourself, your specific needs what fills you up to your very core.

DO IT.

DO IT EVEN IF YOU LOOK LIKE AN IDIOT.

 

THE WORLD IS JEALOUS OF LOVERS.

 

peace out!! ❤ ❤ ❤ and may the home within yourself may always be well

maalia